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    Default Need some advice

    My husband is a very busy person. He's a doctor and aside from his duties at the hospital, he has a small clinic. My husband's been really stressed this past few months. When home, he's very irritable and he always brings his work home. I can see him lugging charts, books, journals from our home to the clinic to the hospital. I'd like to help him in some way but I don't know how. Is there a way that I can help him with his work-related stress?

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    Very quietly, without fanfare, pack a bag, leave him.
    Best for you, great for him.
    If there is someway, you might want to track how long it takes him to
    notice you are gone.
    All the best

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    Default Yeah it is possible

    It is quite easy to help him. He is suffering for work stress and the only thing he need is your attention. You should give him some entertainment like movie or something or even with his favorite dishes. I am sure his stress will be gone in days.

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    Thank you for your fabulous advice. But I think I'll pass.
    I'm thinking of suggesting that he get something like this one by HealthFusion. My gyne has been using this and I don't think my husband uses anything like this. He's so old-fashioned and has been sticking to the traditional ways like a glue.
    What do you think?

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    Can only repeat dump him, split.
    Not worth the effort, life is too short

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    Yup! Dump him!Thanks for the link I'm sure if I or any one else here ever decides to become a healthcare professional it will be very useful

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    Have you tried talking to him, asking him how you can help? Suggesting he takes it easy because life is short?

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    I am trying to be as understanding as possible but it is really taking a toll on our relationship.

    Anyway, thanks for your thoughts.

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    I have checked with your advice and found that your data is good.

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    Default Relationship rules

    Leanna Scarlett
    I am trying to be as understanding as possible but it is really taking a toll on our relationship.

    Anyway, thanks for your thoughts.
    I could not understand the reason behind toll on.

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    Well, did we dump him or not, have been waiting patiently?

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    This has been much on my mind lately!We have to know!

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